Sunday, September 22, 2013

Stomach Flu, Arrests, Blanket Forts and the UN

9/19/2013

      Well I survived my first stomach virus in Mongolia. I had to take the day off from work yesterday, to lay in bed and sleep all day. I am now on meds which turn my tongue black. I look like an alien, but they really help with the pain and nausea, so it's worth it. I had been feeling off for couple weeks, but just thought it was just a cold or from lack of sleep. I came into work this morning, feeling much better, still sick, but no longer throwing up. Thank god the worst of it is over!
       Tuesday night was full of excitement, not the kind that you want though. The night ended in 4 people getting arrested in my apartment. When I came from work, I noticed that there were two large “bubbles” on my bedroom ceiling. It looked like my ceiling was caving in from water or something, so I called me counterpart and told him what I was seeing. He rushed over and his exact words were “Oh Not Good!”, I told him that they have been doing construction upstairs, so maybe that had something to do with it. He ran upstairs to talk to the construction workers, while he is up there I can hear yelling. All of a sudden, water starts pouring out of my ceiling in the kitchen now! Big bubbles start forming on that ceiling now. My counterpart runs down the stairs with a plumber and they start drilling holes in my ceiling to relieve the pressure and let the water out. My kitchen was flooded and we started quickly removing all the electronics and wires out of the water. All of a sudden there is more yelling and screaming and pounding down the stairs. The owners of the apartment and the plumbers are now in an all out brawl outside my window. 3 women and 3 men are punching each other and screaming. My counterpart runs outside to try to stop the fight, before he leaves he tells me to watch his 5 year old daughter that he had brought over. I give her a cookie and put on Little Mermaid, which she seems to enjoy. The fighting goes on for about 10-15 minutes. My counterpart then comes back into my room and says that things should be fine now and that the ceiling may leak a little bit more, but they have pumps going upstairs and they are shooting all the water out the windows (some of the pipes broke upstairs and so all the water rushed out of them while they were working on the heaters). He tells me he will be back in 30 minutes to check on me. The ceilings appear to be fine and my counterpart comes back and goes upstairs to see how the plumbers are doing, everything seems to be fine now, so he leaves telling me to call him if anything else happens. Well don't you know, 30 minutes after he leaves, another fight breaks out between the owners and plumbers, one of the plumbers is banging on my door, telling me to open up so he can check my kitchen. I let him in and then he tells me to call my mongolian friend so he can talk to him. I call my counterpart and the plumber starts yelling at him and takes my phone outside. I follow him outside, when 2 police cars drive up and the officers try to stop the fight. Everyone is yelling, calling each other drunk and lazy. A couple of the men are bleeding everywhere and then everyone starts to get arrested. My counterpart tells me he is on his way over and to get back into my apartment and lock the doors. I quickly went back into my apartment and waited for him to show up. When he does he goes upstairs to the apartment to talk with the owners. He is up there for a good 40 minutes discussing things and then comes back down and tells me my neighbors are crazy but everything is worked out and there should be no more problems. Luckily, there were no more.

9/20/2013
      Today, I had my first successful “mini-project” and what a great feeling it is! I will be celebrating this small triumph tonight for sure! This past week 12 delegates from Mongolia took part in the UN International Conference on Population and Development (ICPD). Here is the press release explaining the conference:

Press Release
13th of September 2013

Asia Pacific Population Conference Meets to Discuss the Post 2015 Agenda on International Conference on Population and Development

The UN International Conference on Population and Development (ICPD) held in Cairo in 1994 was a turning point in the way we approach population issues. It firmly placed the needs and rights of the individual at the heart of development policies and programmes and envisioned a world where all people – women and men, young and old enjoy equal opportunities and freedoms to make choices and pursue their own life aspirations.

The Programme of Action adopted by the ICPD established a firm link between population, development and human rights, health and gender equality and set an agenda that would:
  • Respond to population dynamics within a human rights framework;
  • Advance gender equality and empowerment of women;  
  • Promote sexual and reproductive health, including maternal health;
  • Increase access to education, especially for girls;
  • Address issues of urbanization, migration and environment;
  • Ensure that everyone experiences the benefit of sustainable economic development; „ 
  • Promote participation of civil society.
ICPD Beyond 2014:  Shaping a future based on rights, dignity and health
As the 20-year deadline for achieving the ICPD goals approaches, a global review of the state of population and development is underway. The review will assess achievements made since Cairo and identify outstanding issues and new challenges. It will serve to renew political support for the Programme of Action, which has been extended beyond 2014 by the UN General Assembly, and will inform the post-2015 development agenda.
As part of this process, the Sixth Asian and Pacific Population Conference (APPC) will be convened by the Economic and Social Commission for Asia Pacific, in cooperation with the United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA), from 16 to 20 September 2013 in Bangkok.  The Conference will serve as an intergovernmental platform for the Asia-Pacific preparations for the special session of the General Assembly on the International Conference on Population and Development Beyond 2014. 
On behalf of Mongolia, 12 delegates will participate in the high level Asian Pacific Population Conference, in Bangkok. These ministerial delegates and delegates from civil society organizations have an important role to play and will be push for an agenda that includes gender equality,  reproductive health rights for women, comprehensive sexuality education, and access of young people to reproductive health information and services.
        Mongolia's participation in the conference was so important, because Mongolia and a few more developed countries will be facing off against the conservative Muslim countries. The conservative Islamic states have something else in mind for the agenda (limited rights for women, sexuality, etc.). This is why Mongolia's voice is so important, yes, it has some ways to go regarding human rights itself, but we want to move forward not backward. Mongolia's delegates are pushing for an agenda that includes gender equality, reproductive health rights for women, comprehensive sexuality education, and access of young people to reproductive health information and services. It is imperative to get sexual education in schools in Mongolia. Health classes need to me established, so that the Mongolian youth have access to information dealing with sexual health, reproduction and relationships. The STD rate is as high as 50% in some areas, which could be easily prevented through the use of condoms , if the children were taught about these things. It is a large problem in my aimag and something that I am going to really focus on during my two years here.
          The reason I am going on about this conference is that Jen and I were approached to take part in a discussion with delegates from the UN, UNFPA (United Nations Population Fund). It would be a great way to get our ideas out and to here about what others are saying on these topics. What ended up taking place was a Twitter interactive session, with the UNFPA Representative and 400 delegates. The largest ever! Jen and I had gotten a group of twelve 11th grade students together to come up with questions and concerns they wanted addressed during this session. They all were very embarrassed at first to be talking about sex and pregnancy (especially the boys), but soon they started getting into it and began to voice their opinions. Although, what they said was slightly alarming. They told me that there was no need for sexual education in schools, because they are still “babies” and do not need to know that information yet. Which is contradictory to the fact that once they graduate high school they become mothers and start families. I, at 22, should already have been married and have children according to my neighbors. But, here are 16 year olds telling me that they don't need to learn about sex and pregnancy yet. So our brainstorming of questions quickly turned into me explaining how important it is to learn about this subjects in order to keep their bodies healthy and free of disease. This is going to be my top priority, getting teachers to sit down with me and come up with a lesson plan that will delve into all these topics. I can't stress enough how important it is for the youth to become educated on sexual health and healthy relationships! I made several points to tell them that no one will know who they are, so they can feel comfortable asking any questions they have on the topic, even if they are about things that people in Mongolia don't usually talk about in public. I feel like that at the end of the hour, they felt more comfortable and started getting interested in the matter (the beginning was a little shaky). Jen and I got to put in a lot of our opinions and thoughts on the matter with the delegates and UNFPA representative, which was great. It was such an awesome thing to be involved in! There were a lot of great points made by the delegates and I feel as though Mongolia, now, has a strong grasp on the importance of sexual education and women's rights and I am so excited to see the change that comes out of that!

9/23/2013

         Friday night, I went to Jen's Ger to start making decorations for the Halloween party. Halloscream Masquerade Ball theme won. We decided that all our decorations will be made from recyclables (except we will be using spray paint on them). So Friday night, we went on the hunt for cans, bottles, wood, metal, etc around the community. So far we have made masks and lumineers with halloween cutouts from beer cans, bats from plastics soda bottles, tombstones from wood, witches hats from paper and soda bottles, spiders from melted wire ( melted and molded in Jen's Ger stove) and ghosts from plastic bags and other materials we found laying around. Everything is coming together and looking really good! It is so much fun to just sit and craft all night. We were up till 230am coming up with ideas on how to make the decorations and starting on some of them.
         Saturday night, the four of us had planned on going camping in the mountains. We rented a tent and had all our bags packed, when it started to freezing rain. For awhile, we thought we could brave the hike and still go camping, but then we realized we would be soaking wet the whole night and unable to make a fire. So, we came up with another great idea. We will camp in the tent, in Jen's Ger. We tried to set up the tent, but since it needed to be staked into the ground, it wouldn't stay up in the Ger. We then had the brilliant idea of making a fort in the Ger out of sheets and having a sleepover in it! And that is exactly what we did. We also watched the Great Gatsby, made dinner and played night crawlers. A game based off of a game in the TV show “It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia”. Basically, the game consists of people crawling around in the night on the floor of a dark room in sleeping bags likes worms. You put your head at the end of the sleeping bag where your feet usually go and then just start crawling. What happens is you start crawling and rolling on top of people, get tangled and have a lot of fun trying to get untangled and find your way around the room. Next time we do it, we are doing it at my apartment and making a maze/obstacle course around the rooms of apartment and having timed races. Oh the things you come up with when its winter in Mongolia. It was hysterical and so much fun. Next time we are going to try to record the mayhem.
        On Sunday, Will, Jen and I organized Jen's Ger. Jen and I made some very nice shelves out of scrap wood and bent nails we pulled out of the wood, which we hammered with wire cutters. They came out surprisingly well considering we had no tools. We were very proud of ourselves. I then went back to my place and organized and decorated, although I am moving out at the end of the month. I couldn't stand staring at blank walls any longer. Will and Jen then came over for dinner and we made Chicken Alfredo (so good) and watched World War Z.
         On a sad note, Gigi ran away on Friday. I am hoping she comes back, but I have not seen her since Friday afternoon, when she was frolicking around the field near my apartment. But, she was getting increasingly unhappier as the days went by, not being able to go outside. So she is probably happier now. Next time I get a cat, it needs to be a young kitten who was not used to living outside and will not want to go outside all the time.

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